Most of us one day will be faced with caring for a loved one. The daily chores that use to came easy for Mom or Dad, now are just too much for them do themselves. Maybe they are having problems cooking, walking, bathing or remembering. Aging is a process that is inevitable, and the trick is make it as full of life as possible. Studies show that elderly persons living alone tend to be more depressed, lonely and take less care of their health. Truth is that the majority of us would like to spend our golden years in our own homes. Where it’s safe, familiar and holds a life time of memories.

The question is: What is best for what my (or my loved ones) needs are now.

As a former Eldercare Adviser, I have worked with many families who were faced with this situation. The one thing that each family had in common, was the fear that they were throwing their loved one in a terrible place. A place that resembled a cross between an asylum and a jail. I suppose way back in the day that’s how things were, but believe me when I say in this day in age, the are more like resorts.

Assisted Living communities are a wonderful way a life. A typical Assisted Living community has every amenity to care for your loved one. Three fresh meals are prepared daily, a comfortable apartment room,where you bring your personal belongings.Assistance with medications, pull cords in rooms, 24 hour monitoring,assisting with dressing and bathing.Housekeeping, laundry, on site beauty/barber shop, field trips, daily activities and church. I could go on and on. What I find so remarkable about these communities is the care that the staff’s provides. Residents are free to come and go as they wish. Throughout the communities are mingling areas where you can watch television, play cards or chat with fellow residents. Each community is different and special in their own way. Take time to check each one out. Schedule an appointment for a tour.Touring around lunch time is a good time , this way you can get a feel of how the community runs. Always take the first tour alone, after you have made a few selections, that is when you schedule a second appointment to bring your loved one. Once again, bring them there for lunch. The community would love to have you.Assisted Living Communities are private pay. Veterans and their spouses are entitled to VA Benefits.(source)